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#16 country girl

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发表于 2012-04-13 22:42

不去!钱跟大家即可。话说每次逢年过节都能从经理那混个小礼物,咱都辛苦干活了,凭什么拍人马屁?不在这地混,咱换地方混就是。不爽就不拍马屁!

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#17 sunning27

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发表于 2012-04-13 23:09

我们每次开Team meeting, Team Away day, 听着各位同事拼命给她拍马屁, 心想我也该拍拍吧, 可是就是拍不起来, 我吧属于那种认真干活, 不爱和领导套关系, 拍马屁起来会脸红和结巴 ( 因为我一说假话就这样 ).

记得我转正那年, 没人提起. 后来我后面来了个年轻的同事, 和她一个国家的, 她转正时在会上特意表扬.

我工作认真负责, 从来没出现在黑名单里. 我的报告是同事里, 不算最好, 也排前几名, 从来没被她表扬过.

其实我又不是给她打工, 可是从来不得到她的认可, 也不太舒服.

还好我的supervisor 挺好的, 总拿我写的报告给其他同事参考.

事实是, 那些会拍马屁的活干不好,名字总出现在黑名单的, 也不会怎样受到批评. 而且分配起案子来的, 他们总得到容易的, 我默默无闻, 就专门接收那些复杂的案子, 干得再好, 也没人注意. 还好工资升级不是由经理定的, 每年自动升一级, 要不我真的倒大霉了.


说走题了, 不好意思.




#18 country girl

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发表于 2012-04-14 07:22

走自己的路,让别人说去!有时候不能太委屈自己。做难的事更有挑战性,就当锻炼自己。

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From country to coutry, even in the country of another country, I am still a country girl. Hiding in the trees and running on the grassland with bare feet to fly a kite. Dreaming in the smell of grass.......
http://www.cawoking.org.uk
http://www.ukfcs.info/

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发表于 2012-04-14 07:39

印巴、中亚阿富汗、中东、土耳其婚礼啥的,都是穆斯林,都是大排场!请两三百人算比较少的了,听说过有请上千人的。其实估计人家对你的期望也不会过高,毕竟你不是他们文化圈的人

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#20 sunning27

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发表于 2012-04-15 11:41

刚才写了一大段,结果网络断了,所有打的中文全没了。我打中文特慢,不好意思下面打英文。

Just tell you something about the difference between my team manager ( she ) and my supervisor ( he ).

I have to visit my service users once a month. There was one of them who has a big dog. I am scared of dogs since I was young and I have hay fever, allergic to dog hair. Everytime I go visit, the dog will sit next to me, put all his weight on me. The dog hair is all over me. I told the service user many times that I am scared of dogs. She seems not to believe me.

One day, at my normal visit, the service users got another big dog, now two huge dogs. I asked her to keep them in the kitchen as I can't handle two dogs while I talk to her. Later on, I believed that she deliberately let both dogs out. The two dogs rushed to climb on my shoulders, one from the left and one from the right. I was so scared, thinking these dogs was going to bite me, and I might get rabies.

When I got back to office, I just wanted to offload my horrible experience. My supervisor was not there. I told the team manager about my experience. Instead for her to comfort me, she said " you should go for dog therapy and learn how to work with dogs ? " I was gobsmacked. How can she say that to support me? I am supposed to work in a safe enviorament. If it were her own people, she would have never responded like that.

When I spoke to my supervisor, I asked him to speak to the manager of the other agency and ensure that this will not happen next time. He did and offered his sympathy. ( I think he also does not like dogs ) I really appreciated his support and understanding.

My supervisor is very flexible. He knows that I always complete my work to a high standard, finish reports before deadline, casenote all up to date. When it is children's school holidays, if I ask to work from home, he always allows it.

However, if the team manager supervises me, I don't think she will allow that flexibility.

I remembered once at team meeting, the team manager was furious because one day, team manager was not found in the office. A colleague was looking for her and bumped into the service manager and asked the service manager if she knew where the team manager was. The service manager said she did not know and should check her electronic calendar ( we use it to record all our activies ie visits, meetings etc ). The team manager felt that the colleague has crossed her / his bourndary to speak to service manager about her whereabouts. I felt that the colleague possibly was trying to start a conversation with the service manager, not necessarily questioning the team manager whereabouts.

However, if we are late for sometime, we will be questioned. If the team manager is late for hours, no one will question her.

That is why I do not like the team manager that much. I felt that she does not support me such, but I could see how she supported her own people ( from Bangladeshi and Indian ). I am not that bothered. As long as my supervisor supports me, even though team manager supervises my supervisor, I guess man is more tolerate and more flexible.

I had a friend who got a job in north London. Her team manager is white and racist as my friend is a black woman. The team manager did not allow her to pass her probation. Poor woman!

About the wedding, when I get to office next week, i will find out how much each will contribute towards the giftcard and I don't think I will attend.

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发表于 2012-04-15 13:34

是你的经理女儿结婚又不是你的朋友,别太难为自己了。 给个10镑20镑的购物卡已经很给面子了。何况你的经理又是那种小人,而且又不喜欢你,给多少都是浪费。建议若有可能别在这种领导手下工作。

#22 Amandadeng

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发表于 2012-04-24 12:41

心里要是不想去就不要去,早点跟她说,免得自己天天纠结多难受啊,而且是她女儿结婚又不是她结婚,本来就是不用去的,我确实还没有听过这里女儿结婚请全部同事的,又不是国内的规矩,真奇怪。份子钱,或者礼品还是要给,不过这么心眼小的人,给了也不开心。



#23 st_andrews

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发表于 2012-04-24 13:46

引用 (sunning27 @ 12 Apr 2012, 22:55) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
我和她关系一般,觉得她挺专制,平时也就打招呼。我觉得她是那种喜欢别人拍马屁的那种. 我生平最憎恨拍马屁,也不擅长。所以不是她favorite的下属。


If I were you, I would be looking for another job ASAP. If she is directly managing you it would be like a torture and she's probably not going to help you advancing your career either. blush.gif




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