不知道大家有没有类似的体验。

参加一些由行业内的人士组成的比较正式的聚会，基本上在场上没有认识的人，进入会场之前有一个大的区域，旁边有些饮料，酒和零食啊什么的，大家一般都是拿一杯饮料喝着，三三两两聚在一起聊天。

然后这个时候我刚刚进来，每次看到这个场面都不知道该怎么应付。找人说话吧，旁边的人看起来聊的都挺投入，又不好意思直接插到人家圈子里去。所以只能拿着饮料在旁边傻站着，从大厅右侧看到左侧然后再反复看。好不容易找到闲下来的人，走上去打招呼hello，hru，天气不错（或者真差），过后，也就不知道该说啥了。人家冷不丁说个笑话，我也反应不过来，唉。

或者有的时候跟人家砍行业内的东西，但是又太直接，显的我似乎满脑子都是干活之类的。而且就算是同一个行业，也有不同的区分，谈到一个方向去也是挺难的。

想请教大家一般这种场合是怎么处理的？

just talk all sort of bullshit hi, hows going? what u do this weekend? are u going out tonite, oh, where u going?
what u r drinking? i prefer blablabla....
one good thing about english is once they started drinking, you can talk whatever you like, they wont get ofended, cause everybody does.

if u are shy to talk, best get few glasses drinks quickly, when you got a bit typsy, then you will make yourself comfortable.ha )))

Come out to our Friday night drinks to practice....

Thanks for the advice~~

But I really want to listen to the keynote and also make some friends...
Maybe I am a little shy to talk Some alcohol should be helpful, you know, as long as I am awake.

Great idea