引用(darkblue @ 12 Jun 2008, 19:03)

cxmzsw - to be honest, judging by your statements here, your objection is mainly a consequence of the following.
you are concerned that, as a chinese (and a chinese lady), you would be viewed in the same light as these so called 'mail order brides' (if not already). perhaps it's not as harsh as that, but you somehow feel that your image is violated to some extent.
it looks like that the root of your irritation is a selfish one.
lol.......................
maybe i would be irrated called as a pimp! if all these chinese ladies try to look their sugar daddies, i might lose my business. hehehe, just joking
i know its quite silly of me getting obssessed with this topic, anyway i know its rather offensive to label or judge other people, but i guess we all do that sometimes, its human nature. because we are different. and i am sure almost every chinese immigrants feel differently one way or another to live here everyday, we can get sensitive sometimes, sorry, won't response this topic anymore., i accept the difference now. none of my business after all.