我在国内
去年7月在一个婚姻网站认识
9月HK 见面，
11月和08 年一月来我的住地，
平常就电邮和网上聊
但我感觉不好
第一
他08 年1月14日入境
21日才打电话我告我到达我住地
我怀疑他另有人
28日飞深圳因大雪在机场附近呆了四天，
只是给我了一个电话
第二
我们一个多月没联系
也不写信我
但我写信他
他也很快回信
不会关心人,自私大男人

我想要放弃了


my question
6月的信
1.letter long time i have't your news , are you worry about me ?
i wonder what happened to you , i think you not care me ,when i ill , where are you ?
my feeling tell me that you not love me , not respect me .
yes , i am a simple woman ,
but i am not stupid ,
i am not know about yourself , your childhood , your mind , and you not want to kown me mind , my soul , my heart .
i can't entry to your heart .
maybe you not love everyone .
maybe you just like my body .
i open my heart for you, but you not open your heart to me .
if you have new GF , let me know ,
thanks .

7月的信
2l etter where are you now ?
stay in Cebu for holiday ? with another girl ?
do you love me ?
I did not feel you love me ,
a long time to contact the network to rely on the feelings are very fragile, think of each other while the other side, but not, I do not know what you often, and sometimes distrust each other but also the other side, this love very hard.
i am not know about your everthing ,
i just want to lookin for a husband ,
not selfish, care about me, love me.

he answer

1letter Sorry i have not wrote for a long time, and yes i do miss you, I like your body and I also like you , i like your company and i liked being with you.
I would certainly welcome you with open arms to come and live with me in France on a farm we both have same ambition i think and both do not want life pressures I think.
The hardest part is for you to obtain Visa, if we could overcome that problem i think we could be happy together.

You take care and I am thinking of you,

2 letter
How are you ?, hope you are well and I am missing you.

I am at home in England, working hard and no I have not found another girl, I still want you, mmmmm, I miss you lots.
Like you all I want is to settle down and have nice easy life with some one you like being with, and I do like being with you, I want a wife so we are a couple for the rest of our lives.

Hope to see you on line some time so we can chat again, ok.

You take care, and is your mother and father ok ? hope so
Best wishes,

楼主，建议找老外的话，提高英语。那信写的，我都懒得回。
还有对于不关心的人没必要折腾太多。英国人的思维方式有些不是特别一样的。我以前在火车上认识一个，因为聊的时候我说过我要忙三个月，人家真是三个月后准时给我打电话。现在每次到其他国家出差还给我寄一张明信片，不过他只是我一个普通朋友。楼主的情况我感觉没必要跟人家后面嘀咕了。如果真想找老外结婚，你那英文水平交流可以，但是有些麻烦的，而且一般的英国人会以为你纯粹拿人家锻炼英文的。

劝lz不要相信什么网站啦，就算认识了，至少认识了解这些过程不能少的啊，相处时间短看不出是个什么人的。而且你自己都觉得不对劲啦，估计是个骗子说白了。

MM说句不中听的，女生勤力道持自己外表的时候，也留点时间补充点精神食粮。多看看书，多培养点业余爱好。

ls的建议很对，lz补补英文吧，交流都有问题的话，怎么过日子。

我是一般不喜欢在这类帖子多话的，（你还在其它板块发了同样的贴， 那边好多人泼冷水， 如有得罪英华人，在此道歉了）看着LZ好像自己给自己困住了，不忍心，所以上来说几句。
其实网恋是很正常的事，如果没准备而认识了外籍男子，也没什么大不了的。如果目的是为了离开中国，也没啥不对，有些人就是喜欢看看外面的世界，哪怕倒时发觉外国不及中国好，也无所谓，起码自己感受过了，是吧。但是爱与不爱还需要时间才知道，相信你们一定有喜欢的成分吧。
就算上床了，也没啥大惊小怪的，国内也多的是。最重要是知道你自己要什么。
1/ 不要钻死胡同了，顺其自然，爱情不是逼出来的，是互相之间慢慢感觉到的。
2/ 对方爱不爱你这一点，就别想太多了，时间会揭开面纱的。
3/ 你的英文有问题，好好再练练吧
祝你一切顺利。

Reincarnation of abcd ... ... and no improvement.

haha, I remember that abcd too. You got to learn something from abcd before going to bed with an English guy!