我出国以前和一个女生交往了有半年，她虽然不是我的初恋，但我和他之间的感情也是经历的无数艰辛险阻才在一起的，但最后她还是离我而去，她说已经对我没有感觉了，所以只好分手。但我一向是非常非常的爱她，我相信，在这个世界上，没有人比我更爱她。到英国后，我还是对他不死心，极力想挽救我们的感情，但是她总对我非常冷漠。是不是女人翻脸都不认人？！直到我骗她说我已经有了女朋友时，她才对我有所好转，不像以前那样冷漠。还说今年夏天我回国，她会来机场接我。
这到底是为什么？
其实她是一个非常出众非常重感情的女孩，为什么当时她离开了我？为什么这一年多她依旧单身？为什么一定到我说有了“新欢”时才肯理我？她到底还爱不爱我？这一切的为什么到底是为什么？
我不知道今年夏天回国，我会不会疯了。 ……

Controlling yourself...Do not waste too much for woman。女人是祸水。。

你不死心的时候对方敢对你假以颜色么，万一你又认为她的友好是余情未了呢。

现在可以做个好朋友吧。

QUOTE (stele @ 1 May 2003, 19:01)

Controlling yourself...Do not waste too much for woman。女人是祸水。。

你是在说你吗？

forget her then u can be free

QUOTE (lucyduan @ 1 May 2003, 20:06)

forget her then u can be free

有那么简单就爽了、、、、

疯吧疯吧, 你是疯儿她是.......

随她去吧.

试着爱别人.

QUOTE (in the rain @ 1 May 2003, 23:02)

随她去吧. 试着爱别人.

对，转移目标、、、

几天了，避开他，眼不见，心不烦。。原来我也可以做到的。
试着淡忘吧，然后你会发现，人的韧性还是很强的

QUOTE (fredrick @ 1 May 2003, 20:42)

疯吧疯吧, 你是疯儿她是.......

傻

彪。。。

she felt released when you told her you had a new girlfriend. that is why she treats you better than before. she is still single just because she hasn't found her ideal lover, not because of you. she likes to meet you in the airport just becasue she has already taken you as a good friend. there is no further reason la. so you'd better take it easy and don't think, don't expect and don't dream too much.
it is true that it is impossible to change a girl's decision when she made it and she would mean it.

QUOTE (Renajh @ 2 May 2003, 12:03)

she felt released when you told her you had a new girlfriend. that is why she treats you better than before. she is still single just because she hasn't found her ideal lover, not because of you. she likes to meet you in the airport just becasue she has already taken you as a good friend. there is no further reason la.  so you'd better take it easy and don't think, don't expect and don't dream too much. it is true that it is impossible to change a girl's decision when she made it and she would mean it.

没错

可怜的男孩，有时候爱真的就是让你若即若离．．．．．

QUOTE (rz14 @ 1 May 2003, 18:58)

我出国以前和一个女生交往了有半年，她虽然不是我的初恋，但我和他之间的感情也是经历的无数艰辛险阻才在一起的，但最后她还是离我而去，她说已经对我没有感觉了，所以只好分手。但我一向是非常非常的爱她，我相信，在这个世界上，没有人比我更爱她。到英国后，我还是对他不死心，极力想挽救我们的感情，但是她总对我非常冷漠。是不是女人翻脸都不认人？！直到我骗她说我已经有了女朋友时，她才对我有所好转，不像以前那样冷漠。还说今年夏天我回国，她会来机场接我。 这到底是为什么？ 其实她是一个非常出众非常重感情的女孩，为什么当时她离开了我？为什么这一年多她依旧单身？为什么一定到我说有了“新欢”时才肯理我？她到底还爱不爱我？这一切的为什么到底是为什么？ 我不知道今年夏天回国，我会不会疯了。 ……

这是很理智的女孩，宁可只身一人，也不会随便找个。估计你是有什么客观条件没有达标。