何为处女？就不是一张膜嘛！

在我看来这只是在生理上的，还有一种是在心理上的，它分为两种：

一、虽是没有Make love，但是却深受黄毒熏燎，变的“妩媚动人”、出口成脏。到处
问候他人的母性亲属。也不看看自己有没有那种功能。

二、先说个故事：春秋时，楚灭了息国，把息侯的夫人妫氏占为己有，息侯则被分派
为楚国的都城的门卒。三年后，妫氏替楚文王生了两个男孩——堵敖、成王，却从不
开口说话。楚文王问妫氏为和不开口说话？妫氏说：“我一个妇人，却先后嫁了两个
男人，我不能守节而死，还有什么话好说呢？”妫氏忍辱不死，全是为了息侯。有年
秋天，她趁楚文王去打猎，溜到城门处去找息侯，哭拜之后。变撞城墙自尽了。息侯
大恸，也撞城墙而死。楚文王知道后，将两人按诸侯之礼合葬，并建庙按时祭祀。
在我看来她是圣洁的处女，依然纯洁无暇。这种就是不是处女的“处女”。

PS：处女——指没有做过的女孩，又指纯洁无暇的意思。

PS再PS：夫妻对话
妻：你看人家外国人多好，婚前虽然拈花惹草，但结婚后就很忠心，人就是这样应该
尽情享受婚前的时光。
夫：如果你婚前放荡，我不会娶你。
如果我婚后拈花惹草，你会离开我。

我总觉得，男人要聚处女，是因为丢不起面子。。我到觉得没什么。。大家在一起开心就好啦。。。
all the best
yours sincerely
dargon king

没什么面子不面子的，完全是封建思想的残余。

我就不在乎自己女朋友是不是virgin

我们追求的是真挚的感情，而不是一张完整却又多余的膜

QUOTE (ricky @ 7 Jun 2003, 3:34)

没什么面子不面子的，完全是封建思想的残余。 我就不在乎自己女朋友是不是virgin 我们追求的是真挚的感情，而不是一张完整却又多余的膜

是那个年代的产物，人们不能不为之。现在好啦。。不过，大数男人还是喜欢自己的女友纯真。男人为性而爱，女生为爱而性，千古之道莫过如此。
all the best
your sincerely
dragon king

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱

不会有情

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31)

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情

你就知道用做的,不知道爱可以用心阿
S~~~A~~~B~~~I

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31)

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情

说的真好.

楼住有点.......沉不住气.心胸狭窄.

本人心直口快,得罪之处,请多包含.

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31)

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情

没有处女膜就没有情？

这个理论不可行

QUOTE (ricky @ 8 Jun 2003, 1:18)

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31) 不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情 没有处女膜就没有情？ 这个理论不可行

完全同意。。。
all the best
yours sincerely
dragon king

QUOTE (ricky @ 7 Jun 2003, 3:34)

没什么面子不面子的，完全是封建思想的残余。 我就不在乎自己女朋友是不是virgin 我们追求的是真挚的感情，而不是一张完整却又多余的膜

同意同意的说。。。

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31)

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情

处女情节！！！

象你这种希有动物最好用腊封好，放入博物馆、、、

这样后人就会知道“ＳＡＢＩ是怎样练成的”。。。。

那就让我当这个稀有动物好了.如果大家都一样起不是没了"阶级敌人",没有绿叶谁来衬托红花,我做绿叶好了.

意念不变.观点如前.

小心啊，你这样的男人可 能会因为找不到伴侣而绝种的。

满嘴仁义道德,所作所为却是......... 有些人.

请问搂住还是处女么？

他不是处男

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31)

不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情

Fart! ...

Sorry.... I just did...

What is love?

What is a relationship?

Do you kids know what are you talking about?

QUOTE (Wabbit @ 11 Jun 2003, 0:52)

Do you kids know what are you talking about?

偶未到合法年龄发言...路过.

我过了合法年龄，也是路过~~

QUOTE (Con vanjo @ 11 Jun 2003, 8:15)

偶未到合法年龄发言...路过.

发言也需要合法年龄吗?

QUOTE (little bear @ 11 Jun 2003, 9:43)

QUOTE (Con vanjo @ 11 Jun 2003, 8:15) 偶未到合法年龄发言...路过. 发言也需要合法年龄吗?

呃....我悉心听取诸过来人的意见

QUOTE (sanjie @ 10 Jun 2003, 11:26)

请问搂住还是处女么？

这么大的人了还问这样的问题，不言自明嘛。

QUOTE (Wabbit @ 10 Jun 2003, 23:52)

QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31) 不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情 Fart! ... Sorry.... I just did... What is love? What is a relationship? Do you kids know what are you talking about?

rather than ask what is love, i am more eager to find but what is the difference between 爱 and 情.
and does been a virgin make the two words different? does age make you better at distinguish the two.
If it does, can some elders give us some satisfying explainations?

QUOTE (Sai @ 11 Jun 2003, 12:08)

QUOTE (Wabbit @ 10 Jun 2003, 23:52) QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31) 不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情 Fart! ... Sorry.... I just did... What is love? What is a relationship? Do you kids know what are you talking about? rather than ask what is love, i am more eager to find but what is the difference between 爱 and 情. and does been a virgin make the two words different? does age make you better at distinguish the two. If it does, can some elders give us some satisfying explainations?

love just means love, you can feel but can;t tell.
en. relationship is just relationship, most time, it means sex.
but in addition to that, it also means a kind of privity.
so, here 爱 is assumed to represent love, an emotion, while 情
tends to show the relation, a physical condition.

a virgin has no relation to these two things, but it may affect your feeling about them.
whether virgin or not, you will love her(him) anyway if you can feel
the love. but if the relationship has been built, there is no virgin. So..so..
you see, virgin just means a state in your life. don't care too much about whether she(he) is a virgin. You and she(he) will not be virgin in the end.
blar..blar........What am I talking about?? What's the hell I want to tell?

Here it is, virgin has nothing to do with your love, it can only affect your relation. Your relation may have gone, but your love is still there. vice versa.

PS: the older you are, the more chance you get to be a non-virgin. I don't think sb. will be happy to be a non-virgin for the whole life. But do be careful, when you want to establish a relationship, I wish it will be your sweet memory instead of a nightmare.

Virgin
Pay as you go SIM card is very cheap

Only 15p/min at the frist 5 mins, and following 5p/min all day

看来我得出来解释一下了.

爱 本人指的是"性爱"的"爱" 也就是SEX.

情 指爱人之间的深情,纯真的爱情,高一层次的精神追求/

嘿嘿.偶也是绿叶之一哦/

QUOTE (Sai @ 11 Jun 2003, 12:08)

rather than ask what is love, i am more eager to find but what is the difference between 爱 and 情. and does been a virgin make the two words different? does age make you better at distinguish the two. If it does, can some elders give us some satisfying explainations?

AI comes in many forms... I assume we are talking about the love for couples...

You might have heard that people say "the ture love only lasts for 100 days"... that's not necessarily true but the one who's in love must feel the love the strongerst during these, say, 100 days... Love is the FEELING that you will do everything for that person...

But the relationship can be based on many things... it is the idea of SHARING emotional or materialistic stuff with "the other one", as long as there is a CONNECTION between the two parties... it can be based on love, sex, money or whatever...

Virginity... nothing but a sexual nature, so it would only affect the latter, not the former...
The view of caring about the partner of being a virgin or not will not strongly correlate with age, it is rather, depending on one's mental status and the culture backgroud.

QUOTE

"Does age make you better at distinguish the two"

Well, over the years, I still haven't master the ability to decide whether a girl is a virgin or not by the way she walks yet...

QUOTE (freemovie @ 12 Jun 2003, 2:08)

QUOTE (Sai @ 11 Jun 2003, 12:08) QUOTE (Wabbit @ 10 Jun 2003, 23:52) QUOTE (jojochina @ 7 Jun 2003, 10:31) 不是处女只能当情人,和她可以有爱 不会有情 Fart! ... Sorry.... I just did... What is love? What is a relationship? Do you kids know what are you talking about? rather than ask what is love, i am more eager to find but what is the difference between 爱 and 情. and does been a virgin make the two words different? does age make you better at distinguish the two. If it does, can some elders give us some satisfying explainations? love just means love, you can feel but can;t tell. en. relationship is just relationship, most time, it means sex. but in addition to that, it also means a kind of privity. so, here 爱 is assumed to represent love, an emotion, while 情 tends to show the relation, a physical condition. a virgin has no relation to these two things, but it may affect your feeling about them. whether virgin or not, you will love her(him) anyway if you can feel the love. but if the relationship has been built, there is no virgin. So..so.. you see, virgin just means a state in your life. don't care too much about whether she(he) is a virgin. You and she(he) will not be virgin in the end. blar..blar........What am I talking about?? What's the hell I want to tell? Here it is, virgin has nothing to do with your love, it can only affect your relation. Your relation may have gone, but your love is still there. vice versa. PS: the older you are, the more chance you get to be a non-virgin. I don't think sb. will be happy to be a non-virgin for the whole life. But do be careful, when you want to establish a relationship, I wish it will be your sweet memory instead of a nightmare.

well, I can't see any way of 情 been a relationship and physical conditions at all. also, I can't see the virgin serie apply here at all, can you give me some more explainations please (sorry, my chinese may be a little rusty)

QUOTE (oxidase @ 12 Jun 2003, 17:22)

QUOTE (Sai @ 11 Jun 2003, 12:08) rather than ask what is love, i am more eager to find but what is the difference between 爱 and 情. and does been a virgin make the two words different? does age make you better at distinguish the two. If it does, can some elders give us some satisfying explainations? AI comes in many forms... I assume we are talking about the love for couples... You might have heard that people say "the ture love only lasts for 100 days"... that's not necessarily true but the one who's in love must feel the love the strongerst during these, say, 100 days... Love is the FEELING that you will do everything for that person... But the relationship can be based on many things... it is the idea of SHARING emotional or materialistic stuff with "the other one", as long as there is a CONNECTION between the two parties... it can be based on love, sex, money or whatever... Virginity... nothing but a sexual nature, so it would only affect the latter, not the former... The view of caring about the partner of being a virgin or not will not strongly correlate with age, it is rather, depending on one's mental status and the culture backgroud. QUOTE "Does age make you better at distinguish the two" Well, over the years, I still haven't master the ability to decide whether a girl is a virgin or not by the way she walks yet...

same for this one, you have explained your view about love quite well, but you not awnsering my questions.
I don't care about the different views about verginities since I think it doesn't matter.
may be I am too young to understand love but can some elders really teach me?

这个话题太无聊了

QUOTE (simon @ 12 Jun 2003, 20:30)

这个话题太无聊了

True!!!

but it lasted 3 pages.

无聊你们还跟贴.不是帮着UP麽?还是自己忍不住要看?

楼主好象是只起了个头就不理了

我也有处女情结。。。我觉得一个女孩自愿将宝贵的东西奉献给别的男人，我不会接
受她做GF。至於被夺去的，我也难以接受。算我是“绿叶”吧---反正人各有志。

恩 同意楼上的， 偶也会介意男朋友是不是把‘宝贵的第一次献给了别的’女人。

时间成熟一定要严刑拷问！！

对对，坦白从宽~~~

但是如果两个计划结婚的人同居了,然后发生了一些什么事情令到他们分手,那怎么办呢?
再或者,突然一方去世了,比如车祸什么的

can you bring their first time back?
If not, what are you going to do if you found out that they had girls before?

呵呵，开玩笑了~~真要喜欢人家，根本不在乎这个~~

漂亮的女生95%第一次都会在学校丢啦。。我们遇到是第几个也数不清。。。除非你想聚个。。。。[太可怕了，不要向下想了]。我觉得不是那片血嘛。。。有什么啦，，有感情就好啦。。。。有什么第一次嘛，我看见血会头晕。。。。。再说小龙女和杨过的爱情也如此嘛。。。。那么封建的社会都行，不要说现在啦。。。
all the best
yours sincerely
dragon king

QUOTE (dragonking @ 18 Jun 2003, 12:04)

漂亮的女生95%第一次都会在学校丢啦。。我们遇到是第几个也数不清。。。除非你想聚个。。。。[太可怕了，不要向下想了]。我觉得不是那片血嘛。。。有什么啦，，有感情就好啦。。。。有什么第一次嘛，我看见血会头晕。。。。。再说小龙女和杨过的爱情也如此嘛。。。。那么封建的社会都行，不要说现在啦。。。 all the best yours sincerely dragon king

errrrrrr blood
agreed to the view, not the reason.

小龙女和杨过为什么会被人们推崇倍致,就是因为他们做了人们大都不敢去做的事.对于这种现象呢.我们可一句很多例子.什么是英雄?就是某个傻X做了大家不干做活做不出来的事,而这个事在大义上是正确的.

而这个大家不敢去做的事,现在看来就是"处女"这件了,谁承认?谁不承认?

杨过和小龙女不过也是做了"他们"不干做的事,甚至难以启齿的事.

我不是杨过。而且我还没碰到小龙女这样好多女孩。

说了这么多总结一点，HZMMUK从来没有过女朋友，是个~~~~

女人?