First of all I want to clarify myself that I don't think we could make a general judgement about any group of people. Everyone is an individual and everybody is unique. Anyone deserves to be treated as an individual with his/her own value, purpose and personality.
Having said that, I also need to confess I haven't got to know a lot of men from Shanghai, but from the few I do know, they seem to have a strong sense of family responsibilites and respect women. But I don't see the point of sacrificing a man's personality to make his wife happy or to keep the family. Just like you shouldn't ask a woman to do the same thing. Actually I don't think the article is quite realistic. I've got a female friend from Beijing who is been totally freaked out by her Shanghai persuitor as she doesn't think he is "manly" enough. Then again, I have no right to make a generalization here.
Hmm...about Chengdu guys. I'm a girl from Chengdu myself. Good Chengdu guys are very very caring, humorous, and ready to take responsibilities. I've seen a lot happy families with a Chengdu husband here in the US. About Chengdu guys in Chengdu, some of them are too selfish and with sexual scandles. Shame on them!

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Originally posted by leeee: 为什么没有回复?? 我就觉得上海男人特别好.. 各位MM们怎么说?

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::Peace Love Enjoy::

不喜欢上海男人... 就是不喜欢南面的..
又不喜欢北方男人...
那么.. 喜欢西藏的???

北京的太会说, 做老公可以不用买收音机..

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Originally posted by xiaosui: 不喜欢上海男人，不喜欢，不喜欢，不喜欢...... 喜欢北方男人。北京男生做男朋友还可以，做丈夫不行。 知道这是偏见，可这偏见根深蒂固。

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Originally posted by leeee: 错... 关键的关键是要真的男人, 不要是假货... (JOKING...)

赞成，现在奶油型的太多。。。。

你这样的。。呵呵呵

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Originally posted by xiaosui: Leeee到底在说什么？

他说我在骗好姑娘

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Originally posted by leeee: 一起下下水骗小姑娘??? 我可不敢, 警察叔叔要来抓色狼的... 嘻嘻.

嗨。。现在早不兴抓流氓乐。。。。

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感谢黑夜，
它让我看到了天上的星辰。

如果要嫁人，不要嫁给别人，一定要嫁给上海男人。据说北京女孩的择偶标准：第一是上海男人，第二才是欧美男人。山东女人说起上海男人，最关键评语：不打老婆。在上海女性中有句顺口溜：一等男人 怕老婆，二等男人骂老婆，三等男人打老婆。“跪搓板”这句上海闲话妇孺皆知，它的主语是男人，绝非女人。上海男人别说打老婆，就是骂，也在心里，脸上依然不温不火，所谓大丈夫喜怒不形于色，这 是上海男人的涵养。

　　在全国人民的印象中，说一口塑料普通话，戴一副秀才眼镜，系一条方格围裙，忙里忙外，做菜做饭，早上送孩子上学，晚上接孩子回家，周末早上不敢睡懒觉，先去菜场讨价还价，然后驮着女儿去练 琴去家教。偶尔有空，一手牵小孩，一手拥娇妻，一起去了丈母娘家，只听说有的上海年轻女人已经不会烧菜了，老公加班，宁愿吃盒饭，人称“福气太太”，倘若丈夫不会烧菜，被老婆骂煞。现在时兴按 揭买房子，老公就是包工头，画设计图纸、买装潢材料。为了家，上海男人就像一副“全怪路子”，一百样全带，真是拳打脚踢。有个笑话，说一群太太聚在一起争夸自家里的狗如何聪明，聪明得能接电话 ，听懂人话。有人不信，一太太马上往家里拨号，狗跳上桌，按上免提键，“汪”，代表“喂”；再问“谁在家”，狗又是“汪”，代表一人，即男主人；“伊在做啥”狗这回变调了，“嗬、嗬、嗬”直 喘粗气，言男主人正在干活呢。

　　听说成都地区的男人很潇洒，晚上宴聚洗澡ＫＴＶ，号称“外面彩旗飘飘，家里红旗不倒”。有新版“好汉歌”为证：“一等男人家外有家；二等男人家外有花；三等男人歌厅酒吧；四等男人下班回家 。”上海老公甘居四等舱，其余三等，一般的上海老公想都不想，更谈不上羡慕。上海老公很顾家。婚前，再豪放再粗犷再四海，一结婚往往鸽子进棚，朋友拗断。至此我忍不住要套用一位名人名言：“失 去的只是锁链，获得的将是自由。”上海男人，大学毕业，失去的只是自在，获得的将是工作；结婚后，失去的只是朋友，获得的将是劳役。美国著名女企业家ｍａｒｙｋｅｙ声称她麾下企业员工的价值观 ：上帝第一家庭第二工作第三；上海男人的价值观：家庭第一工作第二自己第三。再高贵的上海男人哪怕是经理、厂长、老板，在单位一夫当关，舍我其谁，牛气冲天；回到家里则是低头阿三，小囡老大， 老婆老二，自己老三，自称红头阿三。所以每每参加朋友的婚礼，都像追悼一位先烈，很沉痛地在贺礼单上抄上一句袁了凡规劝董小宛的对联：“以前种种比如昨日死／以后种种比如今日生。”一种凤凰涅 磐的悲壮。

我 算 明 白 一 了 ： 千 万 别 娶 上 海 MM 做 老 婆 。

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活着就好

总算为上海男人说了些公道话, 顾家, 关心老婆, 会浪漫, 细心... 其实有点好多呢...

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Originally posted by myrtle: First of all I want to clarify myself that I don't think we could make a general judgement about any group of people. Everyone is an individual and everybody is unique. Anyone deserves to be treated as an individual with his/her own value, purpose and personality. Having said that, I also need to confess I haven't got to know a lot of men from Shanghai, but from the few I do know, they seem to have a strong sense of family responsibilites and respect women. But I don't see the point of sacrificing a man's personality to make his wife happy or to keep the family. Just like you shouldn't ask a woman to do the same thing. Actually I don't think the article is quite realistic. I've got a female friend from Beijing who is been totally freaked out by her Shanghai persuitor as she doesn't think he is "manly" enough. Then again, I have no right to make a generalization here. Hmm...about Chengdu guys. I'm a girl from Chengdu myself. Good Chengdu guys are very very caring, humorous, and ready to take responsibilities. I've seen a lot happy families with a Chengdu husband here in the US. About Chengdu guys in Chengdu, some of them are too selfish and with sexual scandles. Shame on them!

错... 关键的关键是要真的男人, 不要是假货... (JOKING...)

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Originally posted by cute: 哪的男人不要紧，关键是遇上什么样的男人

不奶油的算真男人，那甚麽样的算好姑娘？

Ben 大哥, 我可不敢说你的坏话呀..
我还等着看你的大作呢..

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Originally posted by Ben: 他说我在骗好姑娘

为什么没有回复??
我就觉得上海男人特别好.. 各位MM们怎么说?

哪里的mm最好呢？
偶们浙江吧

哪的男人不要紧，关键是遇上什么样的男人

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搞的我们不奶油的找不到好姑娘...

LEEEE 是 个 光 棍 原 来 。
看 下 雨 的 帖 子 还 以 为 是 小 姑 娘 写 的 那 ----特 奶 油

PS:...

所以好姑娘就是你这种连自己性什么都会忘掉的*聪明*姑娘...
是呀, 越笨越好骗, 好骗就是好姑娘...

哎哟, 姑娘们别打我呀...

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Originally posted by xiaosui: 我高兴的忘了自己姓什么。

帖子是别人的EMAIL.. 作者是老姑娘还是小姑娘到不知道..
本人是不是光棍麽.. 好像自己也不太清楚..

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Originally posted by MfG: [QUOTE]搞的我们不奶油的找不到好姑娘...

LEEEE 是 个 光 棍 原 来 。
看 下 雨 的 帖 子 还 以 为 是 小 姑 娘 写 的 那 ----特 奶 油

PS:...[/QUOTE]

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Originally posted by leeee: Ben 大哥, 我可不敢说你的坏话呀.. 我还等着看你的大作呢..

要么你跟我一起下下水？？

还有, 成都的男人都那么牛么? 有成都的亲人证明一把么?

不喜欢上海男人，不喜欢，不喜欢，不喜欢......
喜欢北方男人。北京男生做男朋友还可以，做丈夫不行。
知道这是偏见，可这偏见根深蒂固。

好男人什么地方都有，坏男人什么地方也有。

何必在乎那么多？

赞成AGAIN, 搞的我们不奶油的找不到好姑娘...

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Originally posted by Ben: 赞成，现在奶油型的太多。。。。

我高兴的忘了自己姓什么。

Leeee到底在说什么？

一起下下水骗小姑娘??? 我可不敢, 警察叔叔要来抓色狼的... 嘻嘻.

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Originally posted by Ben: 要么你跟我一起下下水？？